Why We Become People Pleasers

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As a coach and energy healer, I see a lot of clients who struggle with people pleasing. It is a very disempowering way to live where we seek to please others often times at the expense of ourselves. I struggled with people pleasing most of my life and still have to be careful of the pattern of being afraid of disappointing others for fear that I might be abandoned by them.
This has led me as an adult to not speak my truth, play small and not be true to myself at times. I have done a lot of work around this and help so many women who struggle with it as well, and it is a topic worth talking about.
In this video I tell you the different reasons that lead someone to become a people pleaser and some ways to stop.

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When I sat with it my inner wounded child told me that she wanted so much to be loved by mom she would do anything not to feel the disappointment of messing up.

Deep down I felt afraid of what if this project fails and I have to feel disappointed in myself and have other people disappointed in me?

To her (my subconscious mind) that felt excruciating, so better to procrastinate and not do the thing to avoid failing, right?!

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